A little TCB this morning…
You might notice the new look at the top of our blog. There’s a reason we’ve done a little makeover on our banner business.
When we started out back in October, we had some ideas about what we’d blog about and why, but we were open to whatever might come of it. Our primary goal was to play, have fun, and see what we could see.
Since then, we’ve realized a few things about what we’re not going to be:
Your online source for DIY how-tos
So many others are already doing this, far better than we’ll be able to (or want to).

Remember when we showed you how to paint a stripe on a wall? Yeah, there's a reason that one isn't jumping out of your memory banks. (Though we still think it was a great good-enough solution to our problem.)
A home decorating blog
It’s not that we don’t care about the looks of our house (we do), but decor is not our passion.

It's not that we don't ever decorate. We sorta do, sometimes. But as you can see here, ours is not the kind of pretty in most decor blogs.
A great collector of resources and/or tips for making a home
Sometimes we pull together resources or come up with lists of things you might like to try, but we’re finding we can’t deliver a steady diet of that kind of content, either.

Cane did write the epic feast of all cork-flooring posts, with links to every resource you might ever want, but we're not doing that kind of thing as much as we once thought we might.
A font of original, innovative ideas
Oh, we come up with ideas all the time. Things we think are just awesome and clever and totally new. And then we Google them and find out they’re awesome, clever ideas that a lot of people had back in 2010.

Nope, I wasn't the first one to think of making a Christmas stocking out of a sweater. Didn't keep me from doing it and blogging about it, but did help me realize how hard it is to be first with a great idea.
So what are we?
We’ve had a hard time coming up with a pithy tagline that captures all we want to say about what we are and hope to be. But we were able to get a few ideas on paper (yes, real, old-school paper) as we talked about it this weekend:
We’re about family, home, and living intentionally.
We’re much more interested in a happy home than we are in a beautiful house. Our main categories are house, family, and health because we think these are the foundations for home. As we build our home, we want to do things on purpose, and we want to share our questions, discoveries, and epiphanies with others who are looking for the same things.

No, we are not a picture-book family. But we have fun and love each other well. That doesn't happen by accident.
We’re about story-telling and metaphor.
Yes, you’ll still see list posts from us–but even those will likely tell a story. Or they’ll be embedded in story. I’m a poet and Cane’s an artist. Everything is metaphor and symbol to us. When we’re writing about our house, we’re never just writing about our house.

You can bet there's a story behind these boots. (Check out the October archives if you're interested in hearing it.)
We’re about the why and how more than the what.
We’re as much in search of the what to do as much as anyone who’s fixing up their home/life, but it’s the why and how of things that fascinate us.
Why should we…How could we…Why do…How do…
These are all beginnings to questions we like to ponder.

We weren't driven to create this art wall by the desire to fill the space (though we did want to fill the space) but to answer the question: How can we foster and showcase our family's creativity?
We’re about the 4 R’s: restoring, renewing, revising, redoing.
Maybe it’s our age, but we almost always love the old more than the new. We believe in second chances–for objects, for people, for dreams. At one point, our lives were as battered and shabby as the furniture we love to restore. We’re glad we didn’t toss them out when they were broken.
We’re about play and fun.
We’re not as serious as all this talk of metaphor and meaning and battered lives might lead you to think. We’re irreverent and sometimes snarky and we like to poke fun at things (especially ourselves). Life is wonderful and amazing and absurd. We laugh at it all the time.
And where are we going with this blog?
Our primary goal is still to play, have fun, and see what we can see. What that looks like now is a little different from what it looked like in October, though.
We’re ready to get a little more serious about blogging. Part of the fun of creation for us is always seeing how well we can do something. We’ve learned enough to know that we want to dive deeper into the play of blogging and social media. So, we’ve got a few new things here:
Like us on Facebook
We’ve created a Facebook page so that we can share links to posts and quick ideas about making a home. We keep finding things we want to share that don’t merit a whole post–and we don’t have time to write posts about all that we think our (growing) audience might be interested in.
So, if you like our blog, please Like us on Facebook.
(This is what my friend Andrea calls “making the ask.” Not so comfortable doing it, but another thing we’re about is pushing at our comfort zone.)
We’ve made it easy for you to like us–all you gotta do is click.
Knowing how many fans we’ve got might help us with some other ventures we’re thinking about.
And we’ve joined the Pinners of the world
We’re also pinning things you might like on Pinterest. Wanna see ‘em?
There’s not a whole lot there. Yet. Cane is one of the few men in Pinterest land, and his guy’s perspective on what’s pinnable is…interesting (of course). You can check his stuff out here.
Regulating ourselves
We’re also trying to get a little more purposeful (read: professional) in our publication schedule and content. We’re aiming for a regular schedule of Monday/Wednesday/Friday. We’re going to try for more of a balance in terms of house, family, and health. (Ideally, one post on each topic each week.) But don’t hold us to that just yet: We’re posting this on a Tuesday, and we both have demanding day jobs. This is still strictly a hobby.
We hope you like the changes. If you do, please subscribe, like us on FB, and/or follow us on Pinterest. It might help us out in the future, and it for sure will make us feel good right now.
Any great ideas to help us grow?
If there are things you’d like to see (or not), let us know by leaving a comment or posting to our FB page. We’d love to hear from you. For reals.



Feb 01, 2012 @ 19:49:13
How funny you should blog about this when my husband and I just had the exact same conversation about what we were doing with our blog.
We’ve decided to keep ours a mish-mash of randomness but are mulling the over the idea of launching a “professional” blog after I can move again.
One suggestion! Make your facebook page link bigger and in the text perhaps? Took me forever to find it in the sidebar as I didn’t realize that was what the “like” was for.
Looking forward to seeing your new focus!
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Feb 01, 2012 @ 20:07:21
Also not to be a complete and utter nerd but whenever I am bored I research topics. If you seriously want blog tips for making money go sign up for pro-bloggers blog rss feed (the FREE part). http://www.problogger.net/ (no I am not an affiliate)
Certainly they promote a type of blogging I find a little spammy, but for a crash course in keywords, seo, and ideas they are a great resource. Plus it led me to a lot more information and resources like search insights etc… Some of the posts are just not up my alley but I skim through trying to get ideas that might actually work on a “real blog” if we were to launch one.
Now if I could just turn research into action I would be set
Okay I swear I won’t comment anymore!
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Feb 01, 2012 @ 20:14:13
Hi Brianna–
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Really appreciate your comments, so comment away. (What else you gonna do stuck on that couch?
Appreciate the suggestion on the FB button. Took me more time than I want to admit to get it where it is. Maybe this weekend I’ll jump back in.
Another good source is Copyblogger. We’re not doing anything to pursue monetization right now. Just wanting to see what we can do in case we’d like to go that route. We’re having a lot of fun with this.
Take care–
Feb 03, 2012 @ 10:05:12
Thanks for the nudge to fix the last part of this post, Brianna. Much better now…
Feb 07, 2012 @ 13:14:52
I think that’s great – to narrow down what you’re not going to be first! I think my blog has evolved a little already in the last few months (from mostly straight-up book reviews to more ramblings about books) and I’m sure it’ll keep changing as I go!
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Feb 08, 2012 @ 05:27:36
Hi Jessica–
I’m so glad you stopped by and said hi! Can’t wait to see your series on reading–I’m a lifelong book nerd, too. And also can’t be anywhere without something to read. (Reading my daughter’s The Forest of Hands and Teeth right now…)