Today’s the day for contemplation and reflection on the 364 that have preceded it.  While I’m not much of one for the champagne and hoo-hah of New Year’s Eve and rarely make resolutions and think this is a bit of an arbitrary marker from one unit of time to another, I do like to look back and reflect and think about how we might move forward.

In that spirit, I’d like to offer up our top 11 posts from the blog this year (which didn’t start until October).  These are the posts you readers have clicked on the most: (Click on the titles to go to the post.)

11.  Screen Time Manifesto

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This is one of my favorite posts, in which we lay out our attempt to live in healthy ways with the electronic beast.  I’m happy to report that our approach here is mostly working.  The kids are still on screens more than we’d really like, but more of their time with them is on things we find productive.

10.  Glassy brassy lights be gone!

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Our first vanquishing of the brassy glassy lights that fill our house!  We’ve since had another victory we’ve yet to blog about, and we now have a vision for the lighting in our main living area.  We still love this light.

9. What you don’t see is what you get

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A recap of our Thanksgiving weekend, more about what we didn’t do than what we did (and the benefits of such).

8. Toilet paper roll art…

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This isn’t our most polite post, but sometimes you gotta ruffle some feathers (or toilet paper rolls) when you take a stand.  In this one, Cane outlines his ideas about the difference between art and decoration.

7. Gingerpalooza!

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A how-to post on throwing a gingerbread house making party for kids–and on making family where you don’t necessarily have one.

6. Going cork:  All you really need to know if you’re considering a cork floor

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This was my take on our cork floor.  It’s the short/sweet, more philosophical take on the subject.

5. Why less is more when making a home:  A different case against decorating

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This was the companion post to Cane’s on toilet paper roll “art” (#8).  My ruminations on the compulsion to fix/change/fill up our homes–and an argument for why we should resist it.

4. Why clothing matters:  Guest-posting over on Project 333

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How changing my wardrobe changed my life.  Sort of an exaggeration.  Sort of not.

3. Everything you ever wanted to know about cork flooring, and then some

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This is Cane’s take on the topic of cork flooring–and as he claims in the first line, it’s the place to feast on the epic mealtime of all cork flooring posts.  If you’re thinking about going cork with your floors, you really should check this one out.  I tend to get philosophical, but Cane’s the one to go to for the practical, how to (and how not to) information.

2. Is the 70s split-level the new ranch? (Stop laughing, we’re serious.)

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A love letter to the 70s split-level and our suburban neighborhood.  Maybe it’s true that opposites attract?

1. On the 70s, teaching, and fame:  A tribute to Mrs. Smallwood

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That this post is in the #1 spot has way more to do with Mrs. Smallwood than with our blog.  The day we posted this was our biggest day so far, and that was due to all of her friends, family, and former students who found it via Facebook.  A look back at what it was like to be a kid in the 70s in the classroom of a gifted teacher.

So what?

Sometimes I think our blog needs to be more focused.  We can be a bit all over the place, veering from parenting to house renovation to health to…

However, looking at our top 11 list, I can see that there’s no clear pattern in terms of what readers are responding to.  If there’s one strong lesson I can see emerging, it’s one about the power of social media and connecting with others.  Our most popular posts are definitely those that readers have found through other bloggers. We get a fair number of hits from search engines, but the overwhelming majority come from readers who find us through other blogs that we’ve interacted with. It’s not about the SEO.  It’s about connection and content.

Finding some sense of community is a big part of why we began blogging, as we first wrote here.  It’s been fun for me to find writers and readers who care about the same things I do.  I learn a lot from them and enjoy this kind of interaction. This is probably the biggest benefit I’ve gotten from writing our blog–and it’s why I’m interested in continuing to do it.

Now what?

When we began, we had a pretty clear idea of what we wanted our blog to be (outlined on our About page).  I think I’ve realized that we aren’t going to be a source of innovative ideas/information for others, or a comprehensive how-to site. There are others out there already doing a great job of that, who have a lot more time to devote to it than we do.  I think we’re going to keep doing pretty much what we’ve been doing–telling our story, and through it, offering up a mix of things.

I think our work as teachers informs much of what we’ve been doing here.  Sometimes we like to show you stuff and how to do stuff.  Sometimes we like to point you to resources to help you figure out how to do stuff.  And sometimes we like to share our perspective on why (and how) the stuff we’re doing matters.  I think we’ll probably continue to offer the same stew as we move into a new year.

We are going to try to do some filling in of the back story.  Now that we’re settled into our house, we’ve got a house tour planned, so that you can see the big picture and we’ve got a starting place for the renovations to come. Maybe we’ll add some other “tours” as well–of our health, family life, and finances.

We’ve also got some big-picture ideas for how we’re planning to tackle this continuing project of life renovation.  We’re working on putting those together in a concise form that we think others might find useful.

But…the best-laid plans of mice and men (and Cane and Rita) often go astray.  As you’ll see soon.  As in, our next post.  We’ve got a big, unplanned project on our hands, courtesy of a little water leak. This might disrupt some of our plans, but we’ve always been more interested in the journey than the destination.  Good thing, huh?

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Happy new year!

 

 

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Posted: December 31, 2011 by: Rita

4 Responses to “Year-end review:Our top 11 in 2011

  1. Hillary says:
    Keep doin' what you're doin'. It is a pleasure. Honestly, if it was too focused on one area it would become a bore over time. I like it more like life - a little of this, a little of that. Our focus and perspective shifts and bubbles from day to day and I am glad your blog does, too. Happy New Year! I'll be reading.
  2. Candace says:
    I love reading your posts. :)))) Please keep writing them! I feel the need to share that I really appreciate several things about your work: your non-NT take on things, your appreciation for the difficulty of seeking a luscious, great, fabulous and meaningful life within the laws of physics, and one other thing..... your willingness to open up your life others. Without going into any detail, it has unfolded to me that I am not very comfortable with a public life. I do not want my private life, or that of my children, to be the subject of discourse. I don't mind my *work* being the subject of public discourse or comment, but not me as a person. For a brief, five-minute period, my personal life became something people I worked with actually talked about. As if it were interesting. (Really, it wasn't.) And I absolutely, positively hated it. I went through the full range of emotion: anger, frustration, embarrassment, bombastic pride ("Well, good for me!"), only to dissolve in tears and just want to melt into the floor. Which, in truth, put a kink in my goals to document and share with others my own experience of becoming a gluten-free, homeschooling yoga teacher and jiu jitsu player. But your blog, among other things, is helping me to remember why I wanted to talk things over in the first place: to get inspired, and maybe inspire, others. Give back, generate comment, etc. It's something you learn hands down in jiu jitsu: no one can do jiu jitsu alone. You need other people. That's a change from yoga, which is all about yourself. In yoga, you don't really need other people. (I have shoulder-locked myself doing yoga, but there are no photos to prove it.) You don't even need stuff. You could do yoga in prison. But other people certainly help. Jiu jitsu, on the other hand, REQUIRES other people. You have to have good training partners. Or be able to create them. Or it's just you, sitting there on the mat, doing things that would *help* your jiu jitsu practice: yoga, Pilates, ginastica, meditation, weight-lifting... but no actual jiu jitsu is possible without another person. So, thank you for reminding me of the community value of being unique.
    • Cane says:
      Thanks Candace, I share your trepidation of sharing my private life actually. I know my daughter's Aspergers doesn't come out of thin air and that I share many of those traits with her. I'll often find myself in the staff room at school listening to conversations about home life going on all around me with no idea or real desire to join in. I just think that nobody would be interested in what's going on in my personal life. Sharing my experiences in writing is a bit different though. Both Rita and I are more comfortable writing our thoughts than speaking them. Especially with big and important things. Probably our most important conversations have happened through writing. I think it's one of the ways that those of us with social interaction issues cope. That's why I really like Facebook and blogging. It gives me a way more comfortable way of interacting with other people. The non verbal communication is probably why I like jiu jitsu as well. I think of a roll with another person as a conversation. Being able to have that conversation in a physical non-verbal way is really what makes it so enjoyable to me. I never feel more comfortable and at home than when I'm on the mat in the gym. So, I think the things that make me who I am and maybe interesting to others (blogging, writing, jiu jitsu) are actually things I choose as crutches to help me navigate social interaction. That my weaknesses are also my greatest strengths is one lesson that my daughter's Aspergers is teaching me. Thanks for the comment!

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